an interactive site
to help you make decisions that are right for you
(based on the software - "It's Your Call - Making Sexual Decisions")
Melanie and John had intercourse for the first time a week ago and John was really upset about Melanie's insistence that they use a condom.
Introduction
Aspects of Sexuality
•Biological Sex
•Body Image
•Self Esteem
•Personality
•Sexual Orientation
•Values and Attitudes
•Gender Roles
•Relationships
•Activity Options
•Communication
Myths about Male Sexuality
Myths about Female Sexuality
If a Pregnancy Results...
Alcohol and Other Drugs
Resources
Credits
Info on Other Software
Scenarios - Instructions
1. How Far Should We Go
2. Under Pressure
3. He Hates Condoms
4. Oh no... I'm Pregnant
5. Is He Seeing Someone Else?
6. Matt Coming Out
7. It's Not What I Thought
8. Let's Slow Down
9. Emergency!
10. Pulling Out
11. On the Pill...Sort Of
12. Party Times
13. One Night Stand
Introduction
Aspects of Sexuality
•Biological Sex
•Body Image
•Self Esteem
•Personality
•Sexual Orientation
•Values and Attitudes
•Gender Roles
•Relationships
•Activity Options
•Communication
Myths about Male Sexuality
Myths about Female Sexuality
If a Pregnancy Results...
Alcohol and Other Drugs
Resources
Credits
Info on Other Software
Scenarios - Instructions
1. How Far Should We Go
2. Under Pressure
3. He Hates Condoms
4. Oh no... I'm Pregnant
5. Is He Seeing Someone Else?
6. Matt Coming Out
7. It's Not What I Thought
8. Let's Slow Down
9. Emergency!
10. Pulling Out
11. On the Pill...Sort Of
12. Party Times
13. One Night Stand
14. Ready or Not
15. Cultural Tradition
16. Dating Again
17. Your Own Real Life Scenario
14. Ready or Not
15. Cultural Tradition
16. Dating Again
17. Your Own Real Life Scenario
She had a basket of them by the bed, and even though he told her he hates the things, she wouldn't go ahead without one.
He finally gave in and rolled one on, but he told her later that he hoped she wasn't going to be so stubborn next time.
Melanie really likes John and she's invited him over for dinner on Saturday. While they're having dessert, Melanie brings up the condom issue and says that they need to talk about this.
John says "Yeah,
we do need to talk. I sure hope you're not going to be so paranoid next
time."
What should Melanie do?
Here are some of the issues you'll want to explore before answering this scenario:
- Self Esteem
- Values and Attitudes
- Communication
- Relationships
- Gender Roles
- Activity Options
- Birth Control
- Sexually Transmitted Diseases
- HIV and AIDS
When you've finished exploring the issues and are ready to enter your solution, remember to return to Scenario #3: "He Hates Condoms".
What should Melanie
do?
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© 2001, University of Alberta Health Centre adapted from "It's Your Call" |
