Disclaimer: This article shares a student's personal perspective and community resources; it is not a substitute for professional medical advice.
Mental distress isn’t a life sentence … and recovery is fun too
I stood out quite a bit.
It was scary and confusing at times — I couldn’t understand inferences for humour, I laughed too squeakily loud, I hid my twitchy muscles and felt left out because I would hesitate to ask questions. Of the people I connect with, the majority are loud and “twitchy” — they accept their ways while managing life priorities in their best interests.
Back when I experienced a brief dissociation at peak stress and grief of changing life circumstances, it was a strange time. It seemed to have changed how I spoke, communicated and understood things. Once I started to move past the false idea of “I’m damaged and need fixing,” I supported myself, and I’m here to share that some people understand this, too.
I’m going to share fun ideas on ways you can engage with yourself and goals. If it gets a bit scary or difficult, that’s not unheard of. You deserve to continue towards your goals regardless; it's only natural.
There isn’t a single person, including the experts, professionals, friends, dads, brothers and people from many walks of life, who hasn’t managed some disabling impact of an illness or isn't evolving through life changes. Dealing with mental distress or disabling circumstances might also require you to adapt, problem solve and prioritize accordingly.
So, if a friend, belief or support system helps you see through the scary part of it, then take that to your advantage.
#1: Combine physical activity with social presence.
| Life Examples | Benefits |
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| I continued sharing my solo health progress with friends. |
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| I remain dedicated and spontaneous despite evolving contexts. |
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| I continued spontaneity and used that to drop myself in the middle of places I was somewhat nervous about — with no escape. |
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| I showed up to random bouldering places, and it was either I face my social anxiety of a gym space or miss out on the fun of climbing. |
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Here are some places to find free or low-cost support for physical activities and/or social presence:
#2: Invest in nutrition and diet.
A healthy relationship with your physical body helps with clarity in thinking, improves decision-making and increases awareness (said a couple of physicians).
| Life Examples | Benefits |
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| I always keep a habit of cooking the most flavorful and healthy meals. |
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| I follow vegan or vegetarian pages on social media from all cuisine types to understand how to work with the flavour of nuts and greens, since they can taste grassy and unappealing when not cooked intentionally. |
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| Understanding time-restricted eating helped me work with the body's natural state of being in fasting. |
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| I’ve always loved waking up early, so I developed an understanding of meal timing and circadian rhythms to enjoy sunrises every day. |
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Here are the sources and links I used for engaging in nutrition and cognitive functioning:
- The Mind-Gut Connection: How the Hidden Conversation Within Our Bodies Impacts Our Mood, Our Choices, and Our Overall Health
- Edmonton Food Bank
- Marketing can influence your food choices
- Edmonton community gardens
If you’re looking for more support and finding your ground in shared spaces, feel free to reach out to friends or even strangers who get it.
You deserve to be celebrated on all paths in your journeys!
